3/12/2008

Was at mac studying. This family caught my attention because the female was very familiar. The family, a dad, mom and a small baby girl, which i assume to have just learnt how to walk, came in and sat at a corner. The mom was actually a student from my seconday school. A year younger than me i presume. There is no way she can be older than me. The dad dont look any much older than me. So the dad shld be 22? while the mom is 21? With a child which look the most 1 yr old? That means the mom got pregnant at what, 19plus?? Accident or not, i dont know and dont wish to speculate. Its just that the thought of having a family at 22 years old sounds abit scary to me. When i say family, i means a family of 3. Yes, a dad, mom and a child. Not a dad, mom and a mistress nor a dad, mom and another dad.
They say raising a child is not easy. I cant argue that. You need more than just pure cash. You need a lot of patience and love. And its not easy for a young adult to have alot of patience. Love, definitely else there wont be case of people 2-timing or 3-timing. Too much love..
Imagine u having to wake up in the middle of the night to change diapers, having to coax the child into having meals, all those ang-gu-gus u have to make. Where people are out enjoying and partying. Well, thou i know there are some people who derive joy from all those ang-gu-gus. I know there are some who dont, at least when they are around my age.

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